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Ugadi April 12, 2008

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Ugadi roughly translates to , Uga – era and Adi – new. The start of a new era.

Today we celebrated the Telugu New Year :) . Telugu people follow the lunisolar calender, so it gets kind of tough to keep track of such days :P

UGADI

Ugadi is one of the few days people still wear traditional clothes girls wearing langa voni’s and guys wearing panchs or kurtas. The thing I like about Ugadi the most it super delicious food you only get in an Andhra household. Delicious Lemon rice, Yogurt dipped Wada’s, Sweet Kheer.

Rice KheerDahi Wada

It is also the only day Ugadi Pachadi (umm.. new year pickle) is served. Me thinks , I cant explain it better than wikipedia ;)

The eating of a specific mixture of ;

This mixture with all six tastes (షడ్రుచులు), called “Ugadi Pachhadi” (ఉగాది పచ్చడి) in Telugu and “Bevu-Bella”( ಬೇವು-ಬೆಲ್ಲ ) in Kannada[1], symbolizes the fact that life is a mixture of different experiences (sadness, happiness, anger, fear, disgust, surprise) , which should be accepted together and with equanimity.

Race and Race February 22, 2008

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How many people out there believe intelligence is purely genetic ?

I met my Irish mom today ( i feel like calling her that, i dont know if i should though :( ) , she told me how Native Indian guys would hang out , outside her all girls school, in the 60’s. She dated one,who asked her out.Anyways,we kept talking, and she had a hint of regret, of the fact that only one of her three kids went to college. She thought that I had good genes. I was like No Way ! My grandfather was a postman and my grandma an elementary school teacher. Hardly the best gene pool, I tried my best to convince her, but she dint seem convinced.

I remembered a George Bernard Shaw incident, where the American dancer Isadora Duncan, said to him “Will you marry me? The child born to us would have your intelligence and my beauty’.

~Bernard Shaw politely declined the proposal saying “I am afraid I cant marry you because if it is the other way around it would be a disaster”.

I’ve kind of noticed a trend among people out here, they are either brought up to think they are smart or they’re dumb. My work mostly involves fixing problems for undergrads who come in,and they happen to think that me and all the Indian masters students are so very, intelligent. When I try to convince them otherwise, it somehow does not gel to them. I work with a University employee called john and he said to me, you think all of us are smart because you see all smart kids at school,if you go out, you will run into dumb people, there are plenty of dumb people.

Guys in Pool

When I was growing up as a kid, my parents always told me I could do anything in the world, I just needed to want it bad enough. When I grew older, I realized that life is not as rosy at it seems. But, in a dog eat dog world I needed to work hard enough to get, what I wanted.Else, I would be left behind. My dad has a new mantra for me,he tells me to divide my work into little chunks I can eat, and build on it one at a time

I’m not the smartest tool in the bag,I spend many an hour in the library, struggling into the wee hours of the morning. Sometimes, I feel dejected, like today, when I have a submission deadline I could not meet, even after struggling for the last few days. But when you push your self that one wee bit, to go farther than you thought possible. Nothing really beats that feeling of deja vu.

Yeah, I do believe some of us are more gifted than others. Most, of us though fall around the median. Some maybe a little lower, but good enough to get through.

The funny thing about gene’s is nature gets to mix and match, the smartest people don’t have the smartest kids, just as the most beautiful people don’t have best looking ones. Its just that tease kids get exposed to they’re parents profession and ideas. Its a nature thing, having nothing to do with race at all.

I don’t think the perfect man is the best gene pool. I rather think the person who is more willing to adapt is, who knows his genes might adapt better to changes in nature or even mutate to form better resistance against diseases.

One of my favorite sci-fi flicks is Gattaca , where a genetically inferior man assumes the identity of a superior one in order to pursue his lifelong dream of space travel. There Is No Gene For The Human Spirit. :)


PS: Flicked the last two lines off IMDB . [ http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119177/ ]

can we all ever be colorblind ? February 18, 2008

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color smudge

People talk about being blind to color these days, it has become a very hot topic, which raises our passions, it effects each and every one of us directly or indirectly. I found colorblind cupid searching the phrase colorblind on GOOGLE. A friend of mine told me her dad was raised to dislike blacks. My Irish Family told me that people were embedded with an hatred for blacks, so that the few could exploit poor white folk to work on their farms for a thrifty amount. A lot of us see color because, the greedy few have divided us and conquered our fears, or exploited us for their selfish gain.

When I was growing up my mom always told me to be appreciative of different cultures. We never talked about race in our household. I was raised in a very orthodox traditional Indian family. Both my parents very religious, my mom and dad would celebrate our festivals in the most traditional ways, my mom would pick out auspicious dates to begins new things, they took utmost care to teach me and my brother all the traditions. She would read me folk tales that they had passed on for generations. To them our culture, language and customs mean a lot.

When I would go to my Sikh friends, I would get to eat the yummiest punjabi food ever. All of us would paint eggs for Easter. Singing Christmas carols from house to house. I still remember that Santa would come on a red fire truck and all of us would run behind him as he threw us candy and gifts. No one can beat the yummy taste of haleem during the month of Ramdan. Unconsciously, I craved for it all.

When we grow older, our parents unconsciously embed a sense of superiority, while trying to teach their kids they’re culture. Everyone, unknowingly sometimes develops a racist prejudice. No, one ever bothers to look at the negatives, which are silently swept under the carpet. How can society be so segregated on the name of caste, creed, religion and region. Why are people so afraid of losing their culture, when life provides am opportunity of enriching it. I find the concept of being friendly, but going your own way, very ironic.

When I went to school, we were taught, India is like a microcosm of the world in terms of its diversity, religion, climate, and race. The beauty and uniqueness of India is all the different unique looks and backgrounds. Indians have descended from so many different groups: White Huns, Aryans, Central Asiatics, Pathans, Mongols, Dravidians, Sumerians, Chinese, Asiatic Mongols, Greeks, Sycthians, IndoIranians, Arabs, Austaliods, and many many more. How in the world did all these people manage to mingle together ever, did they truly see the world in a way beyond what we do today. One look at the present day and you feel, like its a big farce.

The history taught to us at school has a very colonial legacy, We’re taught about Max Mueller’s Aryan Invasion Theory, about Dravidian’s and they’re highly evolved languages and culture.But, no references of the huge Persian influence on our country, the Mongol Invasions, the gradual Migration on Indo-Iranians into the country, the rich cultural intercourse with china, the kids in the north eastern states never get to learn they’re mixed Chinese heritage at school. The Indus Valley Civilization has a passing reverence. Caste and Creed are mentioned; as if they were some age old practiced ritual. Why can’t they dedicate more information about it, on how it has affected our society, these books have the power to make us ashamed of our past, at least make the precocious few rebel against what they think, is wrong. In a country where education reaches the precious few, a few pages might be all it takes.

All of us need to experience the uniqueness and beauty of different people around us. I don’t know if we and even our kids will grow to be colorblind. But, by crossing the imaginary boundaries people have created for us, we give our self’s a chance to live life, truly in color. Who wants to live in a black and white world these days, anyway.

color smudge

409 days in the US February 13, 2008

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Its been little over an year since I set foot in the Americas and I still am bewildered at why I really chose to come here. Life never turns out the way you want it to, if you had asked me the past if I was ever going to go to the US, the answer would have been a big NO !. My bro was supposed to be here and do all the stuff he planned on doing, but then SEP11, halts his steep ambitions ( but thats another story) and a twist of fate brings this not so bright and lazy kid to toil hard in a land far away. I’ve spent many an hour thinking what is it I could do to make India ( and the world ) a better place,lts not talk about that either.

Seasonal

Without boring you any further, id like to share my experience of the Uniter States as an outsider. So, I land on the east coast and the cab driver rips $110 off me, at least i get to reach home safely. I walk around campus and town doing my paperwork and mandatory stuff. What pissed me off is that most people did not understand a single word I said. I’ve been speaking English since i was a kid, and thought myself to be moderately good. Then I realised i was speaking too fast in the slow south.

Anyways, I end up living in a parallel society, with indian roommates ( all of them from andhra ), most of the guys living around me Indians and cooking up Indian food everyday. Like a mini India, minus the fact that you cant visit your parents whenever you like. Even my classes are made up of Indian and Chinese ( they are the most hardworking people i’ve ever seen ever ever…..) graduate students with a sprinkle of Americans thrown in. As, you can imagine life gets pretty boring, sometimes. I was raised on the east and the west coast and I’ve never had trouble integrating into the Indian fabric, just that I have trouble getting the regional quirks sometimes.

skool

Its surprising that, I could actually live in America, without getting to know a lot of Americans. I’ve befriended the engineering undergrads I work with and they frankly ain’t the best role models of american society…. at least when the talk to me having 3-4 girl friends and hook ups. I’ve made a few friends here and there, most really interested in indian culture ( i always tell them about the negatives , lol) and a few evangelists.

Fed up at not being able to just walk right up and make new friends. Not being able to choose your friends is the most frustrating experience ever. I get myself enrolled in rock climbing and a dance courses and people I meet are really nice and friendly, but dont want to have anything to do, with me.

Anyways, im getting better with my american ppl skills, and it can only get better for me………